A lot of people ask me, "What happens during a coaching session?" and "What questions do you ask?". A coaching forum that I frequently read actually posed this question. Many senior coaches (including me) responded. Here are some of the best:
- "Recently, how would you rate your over all life satisfaction on a scale of 1- 10? 1 being "extremely unsatisfied" and 10 being "the best days of my life"?
- "What are you willing to do to move your life forward?"
- "What will it take for you to reach the point where you don't need my help again?"
- ""if you were guaranteed success, what would you do?""
- "How would you describe yourself to me? How would others describe you to me?"
And my two favorites:
- "If the answer is you, what is the question?"
- "What is the one question you are hoping I won't ask you today?"
Feel free to ask yourself these questions — I think you'll be surprised with the answers.
Which one is your favorite? Which one motivated you?